​                                          Put On Your Positive Pants 
     I asked my Curlfriend Amber what she would like to share with the world and she said "Put on your Positive Pants".  I thought that was genius. It is a great quality to have when faced with uncertainty and doubt. Girls, when you feel like your stuck in a continuous cycle “Put on your positive pants.” When you feel like you’ve hit a wall “Put on your positive pants.” When you feel down and confused “Put on your positive pants.” When you’ve lost your direction “Put on your positive pants.” You don’t have to be a Negative Nellie.  Sometimes people complain and make the excuse that they haven’t had their coffee in the morning.  It is not nice to pass around bad energy just because you feel like it. Your negativity passes to other people and they may feel hurt because you didn’t smile back at them when they smiled at you. When faced with negative outcomes try to look at the positive side of the situation and distract yourself from thinking about negativity. It’s okay to grieve, but don’t keep it in your system too long.  Practice thinking happy and positive thoughts on purpose and your mind will have them easily.  Seek to be around positive people to keep your mind motivated and healthy.  Refrain from complaining too much and saying the same negativity over and over.  When you speak light to other peoples listening ears, they will feel happy to be around you.  It’s okay to express your emotions, but when you are always negative and sad all the time, you have to question “who am I around that is a bother? Is it something that I can change about myself?” If it is someone who you need in your life that is making you sad, maybe you can flip the script and speak positivity on purpose until they catch on.  You are not your emotions. You are not how you feel. Find your positive and “Put on your positive pants.”